When friends encourage you to ‘fight back’
Posted By: suzy Miller on 16/02/2023 at 23:26
In response to Daniele’s reflection via a text message just now… Be Careful. People will express their own unresolved anger by subconsciously getting you to act it out – it’s their stuff, not yours. You are being given the gift of learning to let go and not be triggered – so you won’t carry that burden into the future and find yourself encouraging someone else in the years to come to ‘fight their corner’!
No disrespect to your friend. But it’s a sign of your growing wisdom that you are making your own decisions now and thinking longer term.