Response to Annie

Posted By: suzy Miller on 06/11/2023 at 10:41

The most important thing at the moment is to sort out your financial situation. Quite a while back I remember we talked about support. I also suggested you talk to a Financial Planner so you can make some kind of plan of how to deal with this.

Unfortunate at the time you were adamant that you didn’t want to get that support, but even a conversation is going to help you think more clearly about what you need to do. Am I right in thinking that you own some properties?

I spoke with a lady who helps people out of a financial fix awhile back, and I’m going to try and find her details for you. What you need is to make a plan of action.

Try and come to the next meet up so we can talk about the legal situation and child support because that’s just not going to work via text and messaging!

When I get the information about that lady, I’ll do an introduction.

I think she’ll be a very good first step.


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Thank you Suzy. Yes please to the "DTour Live" link, if still possible.

07:17 25/02/2024
Annie Greening

Hi Annie - you need a way to get out of debt. You have assets. But you need to release those without your ex taking so much you end up still in poverty. So you need to make a plan. Start with the debt lady I posted the info to. You should qualify for legal aid but be careful of that - if you release assets they may want you to pay the legal fees back. I have a solicitor you can talk to but no point till you have a plan re. Finances. I recommend that you use dtour.live, which is part of your subscription. Let me know if you want me to send you a link to that as it’s a separate platform. In there, you can put all your financial details and run your own financial forecasts, which demonstrate clearly your financial situation and put a case for your need for all the assets, in particular bearing in mind the lack of child support. So that would show immediately that your husband has no rights to any assets from the properties, because of what he owes. You need to back this up with the figures, and also have a plan of action with the debt lady.

09:07 07/11/2023
suzy Miller

Thank you Suzy. I have no assets except roof over my head. I’m not sure what ‘financial planning’ would involve as there is zero money spare to make plan for - I’m an unpaid carer on minimum uc only, no other source of income, no savings no anything. Every penny in is used to try keep functioning in poverty

11:11 06/11/2023
Annie Greening

Thank you Suzy. I have no assets except roof over my head. I’m not sure what ‘financial planning’ would involve as there is zero money spare to make plan for - I’m an unpaid carer on minimum uc only, no other source of income, no savings no anything. Every penny in is used to try keep functioning in poverty

11:11 06/11/2023
Annie Greening
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