Hi Nicola – to work out the costs of what you spend is a job of going though bank statements, but made much easier if they are uploaded to dTour.life where you can run your own cashflow forecasts. As I’ve explained, I pay personally for that subscription so it is available to those who remain subscribed to Secret Divorce Group. You can get your own subscription but it costs not much less than the SDG one.
Working with a financial planner like Henry Elliston is usually the way people pull together the info for the Form E (which they don’t necessarily need if they are avoiding court and focusing on how to split the finances through mediation). Henry can work out based on your current costs, projections of future costs (so much more useful than just using the Form E!)