Ex’s response to my solicitor letter
Posted By: Daniela on 24/01/2023 at 17:56
From what he said in response, it doesn’t look like he has any intention to move.
I have viewed a flat today and i’ll wait to see if my application will be accepted so i have cancelled the lock fitting for now.
Ex still refuses to talk or cooperate with the Splitsmart plan, he keeps saying that the schedule in the app is the plan….
Do you think i should start asking him what is his plan moving forward after we live separate?
(Shall i mention that i’m thinking of moving out and to look at how the coparenting schedule will look like after that? Or will that ruin everything?)
I have so many fears (what if this or that?) that i don’t even know where to start or to do next if i find a place to move.
I know Ruth keeps saying i need to be open and honest with him and to keep him informed… etc…
So i’m so confused of how to do things anymore…
1. What if i move and then he will try to get an “Lives with order” to get the child to live with him, or with both and i lose the UC paying me the whole rent…
2. If my application for a flat is approved, when shall i move? What can the landlord do if i move without notice?
3. Ex will know i’ve moved and without a Child arrangement order in place, he can keep the child and not return it…
4. Do you think i should email ex and ask him about his plans living separate and that the co-parenting arrangemts will be a bit different than what are now while we live together…. i don’t even know what to say and how.
What do you think?
I hope you can help.
Thank you very much