Introduction: Part 1 (13min)

Introduction: Let me take you up in a balloon….

An introduction to the voyage you are embarking upon

(or perhaps you are already adrift?!)

An overview of the different areas we will cover.

Best to move forward in the order they are laid out for you…

Introduction: Part 1 (13min)

TERRAIN 

P.R.E.P. The Voyage

Get a reality check about the Terrain of the divorce journey

On this divorce/separation voyage, are you confident you know the landscape well enough?

With good preparation you will know how to avoid the icebergs, not to mention the Bermuda Triangle of divorce – that sucks in thousands of pounds in legal bills that you really shouldn’t have to pay.

How would you like to gain clarity about the real landscape of divorce and be fully aware of how to avoid the traps that others fall into, and what you need to know about the three key areas of divorce: Administrative, Financial and Co-Parenting, that maybe the lawyers don’t tell you.

TAKE CONTROL

F.R.E.E. The Anchor

Take Control of the psychological aspects and stay sane

Are you confident about your emotional strength to deal with this voyage? 

Are you ready to free the anchor of what holds you back and to be in charge of what happens next – or are you tempted to hand over your power to strangers working within a toxic family law system?

How to stay sane, and how to know whether a counsellor/therapist or a coach would be more helpful as support, and why healers can be even more useful than you might think. The Divorce First Aid Module ensures you are able to deal with the psychological effects.

TOOL KIT

Set S.A.I.L.

Create your own Tool Kit of experts and save yourself

thousands in legal fees

Do you really understand what everyone does, which experts to talk to – and when?

Setting sail on this part of the voyage leaves you feeling more in control of the process. There is very little law in family law – so who else can help you on the divorce voyage beyond your limited legal needs?

Find out who are the key professionals that most people don’t know can help you, and how to get the best out of them.

You’ll know who to get help from, and when, and how to keep thousands of pounds for the kids instead of handing it over in legal bills for no better outcome. Lawyers play an important role but they can cost much more in time and money than most people realise. And many of those costs are avoidable.

TRAVEL GUIDE

Set The C.O.P.A.S.S.

Devise a Travel Guide that makes sure that you focus on

your ideal destination

Do you have a clear vision of the end-game? Your destination years down the road?

Setting the compass on your future – planning ahead, and avoiding the pitfalls that others encounter – but you will also have a clear vision of your final positive destination.

It’s so easy to fixate on an outcome that is short-term and sometimes misconceived. Let’s make sure that your end goals are well-considered and will bring you true satisfaction.

TRUST

Navigate By The S.T.A.R.S.

Discover ways to build Trust even in the

most conflicted relationships

Is it possible to ever trust again?

Sometimes we need to learn old skills – like modern sailors going back to basics to learn how to navigate by the stars – to overcome huge obstacles. Those who voyage through divorce and family separation will find that trust – even if it’s still there at the beginning of the process – can easily break down.

This course introduces you to a variety of ways to ensure that you rebuild a new relationship – essential if children are involved.

TOGETHERNESS

Calm S.E.A.S.

In Togetherness the family changing form peacefully is the priority

How you can make sure you don’t end up with a broken family. 

You will evolve into an extended family with the intention of keeping those family relationships as calm as possible. There are boundaries and strategies you may need to adapt to make this work for you – especially if your co-parent is difficult to work with!

Understanding what is needed to make sure your children don’t just survive your divorce – but thrive!