First Aid: Part 12 (3min)



Working together – it can bring out the best in you.

Doing what seems impossible – but actually, when you are focused on your end results, negotiating with someone you don’t like anymore (or just feel emotional in the vicinity of them) is possible, with the help of professionals like mediators, divorce coaches or therapists.

I find most people become ‘enlighten’ simply by accepting what they know to be true, but perceiving it in a more empowering way. The biggest block is not wanting to feel enlightened. Sometimes we get too used to feeling like the victim. Make sure that’s not the story you create for yourself.


“Enlightenment is but a recognition, not a change at all.”


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